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A husband liking the idea of polygamy isn't exactly unusual. Most husbands probably like the idea, but won't admit it. 😁

You basically wait that your wife accepts you like polygyny. That's all. Just husband with one strange belief. Don't bring it up. Don't surrender.

This! This is how you lead. Do. Not. Give. Ground! Part of that is refusal to engage. Not because your position is not right, but because it would only strengthen her determination to oppose you. She must accept your right to believe it...

That’s how it worked for me. I had the advantage that m wife knew I believed it when we got married but I told her exactly what I told you I tell your wife. I didn’t follow my own advice as well as I should have and it took four years for the...

Insightful, thank you. I may just use this. I’d prefer to avoid the black mark of losing this one, and patience is something I do believe will fix this. My best case is she comes around and absolves the vow and helps me should we go down that...

You ARE NOT going to be polygynous any time soon. Set the desire aside. Tell your wife this: “I love you and I will never give up being your husband. We were married under a vow of monogamy and I will honor that vow. I will not pursue polygyny...

Almost every single thing that we learn about in the Word requires action on our part This is not one of them. Yes, acceptance of this truth is required, but our knee jerk reaction to act on it is not correct. Ps. It’s a common problem, most...

My honest advice is that you should drop this issue entirely. You've only been married for 2 1/2 years. That's nothing. Enjoy the wife God has given you, and build a solid marriage with her. If you were to take another wife in the short term...

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Understood.

Seriously, one year is nothing when it comes to wives accepting this truth. Just keep praying for her and being the husband that you should be. Stop bringing up the subject, she knows what you think. I told my wife that she would eventually get...

Many first wives here will tell you it took a long time for them to get onboard. The desire won’t go away if that’s what God is wanting you to pursue. I would even recommend videos from Pete Rambo with his wife Kelly and their testimony of...

I agree with you on this, and she has dropped hints about that. While I am a willful young man with a personality inclined to leadership, I still have a long way to go. I am exceedingly grateful for God preserving my marriage and for my wife’s...

One of reasons she feels cheated is because you want, from her perspective, to change term of deal towards something worse for her.

A thought just came to mind. I don't know if you will have seen this, but I posted this is the Random Comments thread about using AI: https://biblicalfamilies.org/forum/threads/random-comments.15567/post-304903 Maybe it will help give some clarity.