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Good afternoon sir, Thanks for asking. Things are much the same but we had another clash about it last night by my prompting. I had her read the verses aloud to me, and she does not deny them but maintains they were done for Hebrew society and...

Hi @davidthebuilder, how are things working out? I was re-reading through this thread and was wondering how you are doing and how your relationship with your wife is now? It's been a while, so I pray there is growth and sanctification on all...

@davidthebuilder I was in a similar situation to you several years ago. I learned the truth about polygyny, by simply reading my Bible. It just became clear to me that I had been lied to. I waited a while and then brought it up to my first...

When you got married, she wanted you to be in charge as her patriarchal leader. She trusted you immensely with this - she trusted you to treat her well. Now, if you know polygamy is acceptable to God, but choose not to pursue it because you are...

Welcome David! I would like to add another thought to the discussion along the lines of what you should focus on now that you have made your declaration/stand on the truth of marriage. I encourage you to start dealing with the "small stuff" that...

Alright so I said more or less this to her tonight. Now it's time to wait and pray. Thank you everyone for the wisdom and prayers and support. God bless you all.

Any time you have to accept something that all your life you have been taught is base, immoral, and means your husband hates you, is going to take a while to wrap your mind around and accept. The best thing is to pray for her, be humble, patient...

That John 8:1-11 reference is suspect simply because for stoning two witnesess are required. Where are those witnesses?

According to human reasoning and what is fair, she is absolutely correct. You made a promise and now you want to renege on it. Yah, of course, probably has an opinion about how things should be handled going forward.

I think reading daily is a habit I should get into. If nothing else, I’ll start with that.

Hi @davidthebuilder and welcome to the big reality check on biblical marriage. You are in exactly the same place most men here have been in or are in. So, welcome aboard. You claim to be a Bible believing Christian. Okay, so start with...

It does break the advice to not talk about it and avoid the topic, but if your wife does get an idea into her head that you're being led astray by crazy people on the internet trying to lead you into sin, and does need some persuading that is not...

This is some top shelf premium wisdom! Thanks for sharing it.